Oh ya, it makes sense.

For years I wondered what my ex would pull next. I worried about him trying to get custody. He always had an issue with paying child support and alimony. Everyone told me “oh, he travels that won’t be an issue”. Well, they were all wrong. Yes, I obsessed about it, yes I drove my husband crazy with my worrying, but in the end I was 100% correct with my suspicions.

He also seems to have fallen off the face of the Earth. He owes me $500 to cover my legal fees to bring contempt charges on him (it actually cost me about $7500-but the judge felt that was excessive). He was supposed to pay it by August 16th. Never happened. I sent him an e-mail last week asking when he intended on paying. No response. Maybe that is my answer right there. He does not intend on paying me because even if I take him to court for contempt NOTHING will happen. So he gets off the hook. The court system sucks!

And, now he is back with his drug addict wife. So I can expect more delusional thinking. My son does not seem to care if he does not see his father. He talks with him on the phone, but that is about it.