No, I do not have an attorney yet. Things have been pretty hectic, both at home and at work, plus she just got out of the hospital yesterday, so we're dealing with that. With regards to the other child, he is entering his senior year of high school, so a year from now he will be looking at going off to college anyway. Maybe waiting until then would be better? What she is voluntarily willing to do is unknown, as her attitude and moods towards everything tend to fluctuate. All of this is very interesting, and most likely saving me some lawyer time, either by answering questions or giving me thinking points to bring up if I should talk to a lawyer, and thereby probably shortening the amount of time I would have to spend talking to one. Appreciate your replies and PM's.