You'll have to be more specific about which post you're talking about and which part of that post. If you're talking about the original post, this forum is about alimony and support, so I asked a question directly dealing with that aspect of my situation. I have other threads/posts in other forums dealing with issues like custody of my son. I don't put my son in the middle of anything. His well being has been my priority from the beginning and continues to be so. Some people have said, "you should do this or that right now!", but sometimes that just isn't feasible. My son continues to be in good care, my wife continues on with her treatments and seems to be making some positive breakthroughs, and I will continue my vigilance over the whole situation. The questions I ask here are for me to collect information and increase my knowledge base so that if one day I decide that things are at a point that I need to do something, I'm not starting at square one in gathering this information. I have tried to make my questions specific to the forums that they're in, hence the questions about money in this forum. It's difficult to split things up in the different forums as the issue of divorce impacts so many things simultaneously.