[quote]I've heard its not as common as it used to be.Both work full time +,my gross 50K,hers 25K.If she stays in the house which will probubly happen has no mortgage,c/s support inevitable,all other assets split with no major debt.p.s. kids 9&12 and married 12 yrs.Any thoughts with the info I've provided?Thanks Down [/quote]

That is a question to ask an attorney in your area. They are more familiar with how judges rule in regards to alimony.

In my state (NJ), it depends on the county you live in. In the richer counties, alimony is a given when there is big disparity in income (and there is in your case). And it is usually at least half the marriage. In marriages that are over 10 years, you could be looking at longer. But that is my state.

Your state and county could be completely different. And only an attorney familiar with both your state and county can give you a reasonable guess.