Gigi, thanks for your post, no, the land is mine...I inherited land and money during the separation last year when my father and stepmother died. The lawyer tells me that does not get taken into account in our state. The laws protect me on that one. My STBX wants me to live off that though. He had been good to me this year and continued to pay the house bills and give me money....he just wants it to end there.

I just feel bad for my son...my stepdaughter also feels shate on, I pay for part of her nursing school out of love and support for her; she is my daughter even though she is a step. Her father agreed to help but backed out. I will never understand why he thinks all his kids should just get a ged.

I'm a sap...I will give him the land. He may sell it if he wishes but he says he will leave it to his kids...that is what I asked him to do.

If he really fights and I don't get what I need, he gets no land as it is not part of the divorce agreement, I'm off to bed...you guys have been great, thanks cheeps...