I didn't quit job but was laid off just before she filed. Actually I think she filed because she new I was coming to a end of my job. That chichen egg thing you know. Anyway it didn't matter I was still orderd to pay alimony based on what I had been making. As for the rest of your question about being kept, I should have the answer in the next two weeks. I've got custody now and am going in the morning to ask that she start paying health insurance. She is also kept and only works enough to pay for the very very small child support. From what I understand she will have to pay but nothing is for sure yet.