[quote]yep modifiable is the only way to go unless you have access to alot of money.To the giver it is too huge of a risk to have it non-modifiable i my opinion.Too many things can happen in a span of say 8-10 years. [/quote]

As a giver in a modifiable aggreement, if you start earning more money your x can come after for more, and if she earns more later on you can reduce your support. right?