Hello. My H and I do not have the money right now to afford the 3500 to 4000 to get a divorce with 401k. We considered Legal Separation, but seems you still have to divide assets and debts and the 401k. Is there any other way that I can protect myself financially (he cannot stop paying bill or get more debt) until I can save the money?
Can we write up some sort of separation agreement and have it notarized?
Can we have a legal separation without dividing everything until the divorce?