Does anyone know of the law in California that states that if the man re-marries that the ex can take him back to court for more child support because the new spouse works? I was told that this is the case. There is no way I would ever think of marrying my boyfriend so his irresponsible unemployed ex could get some of my money! He would never think of marrying me until his kids are 18 just so she can't. This bothers me because it controls our life if we want to marry in a few years.