Hello there.

I'm in need of a little guidance...mabye even an emotional boost.
I was born and raised in California. Twelve years ago I married a guy from the Dominican Republic....in California.
I have been living in the Dominican Republic for 10 years now, and have only made yearly visits to my mom in CA.
I have requested a divorce here in the D.R., but I know that I would be better off getting a divorce in CA. I'm the mother of 4 year old triplets. There is NO alimony here in the D.R. and child support is a bit poor.
My question(s): Can I even consider getting a CA divorce after living abroad for so many years?
My sister lives in Texarkana....would that be an option (she's a great support...I'm considering moving there).
I know there are residency issues...thought it was worth a try asking.
Thanks in advance for any input you could contribute.