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you are on your own as far as getting to the therapist, or the grocery store or anywhere for that matter.
my stbx has cancelled on me so many times that it's on his time that i DONT make appointments/plans etc.

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Yeah same here he's already flaked on me a bunch of times. Basically when it's convenient for him he wants to see her. That's why I was so surprised that he would come to me and ask for more days. I guess the depression excuse was all he could come up with.