My 9 yr old daughter confronted her dad about where he was living and when was it going to be possible for her and her siblings to visit. He once again said "next week." She stated to him " tell me where you are living" he finally did. My children walked to his home where he now lives w/ his GF, her 2 kids and her Mother. Boy was he ever surprised. But they all finally got the answers they wanted and ha asked him for from the past few months. He was so embarrassed about the living conditions, the way his GF carried herself, and the fact that she slept the day away while they were there. Funny, since she doesn't work.
Anywho..the kids stayed for 20 minutes and then returned home saying " we don't ever want to go back there..its nasty." I don't know why Daddy stay there." I relayed to them " everyone has a choice of how they live..he's made his choice." I'm ok w/ it all. I'm just glad its finished. Now they know how to find him and that he's ok. They just don't want to visit again. Choice will always be up to them!