To force these children to visit w/ him at his home is not the right thing to do since the divorce and separation of them to him has only been 6 months..i feel it would be detrimental in the long run.
My X was the person who incinuated he didn't need a schedule to see his children. But, then he chose not to visit at all. After he moved he didn't want them to know where he was living.. even when his kids would ask where he was living he would continue to lie.for what reason I'm truly unsure.
So, yes I do choose to not force the relationship w/ him and his children so I can remain nuetral since I don't agree w/ his choice for them to clueless of his living quarters.