stbx has moved his new GF in, need some advice on dealing with the boys ( 6&3yrs old) questions about why the GF is the one reading them stories, giving them baths, giving them orders and disciplining them and dad is not when they spend the weekend at stbx’s house.

I already let the stbx know that I didn’t care about him moving on & moving new GF in, however I did care that his children are well…upset that the new GF is the one taking care of them when daddy should be.

I do not ask ‘What happened at Daddy’s house’, I do ask, ‘Did you have fun this weekend’. I just want to know that they are happy when they are away.

One more thing…any advice on what to do or say when the stbx drops the kids off and the new GF is in the car….I’m at a loss on this one.

Thanks in advance…