Hi
I am already separated from my husband but I am not divorce. I already finish to deal with him everything about assets division. We decide together not to submit the divorce demand to the court until the end of the year but i want to know how can i deal all the problems and consequences after we got separated for example:
1. He has the custody of the kids during the weekend but i want to share at least one weekend each month.

2. We use to have a business together and my expenses, car allowance etc used to come form the business. What i am supposed to do ? or until which point i can claim or i have right to keep getting those benefits until we get divorced by court ?

3. Distance issues ? for example if i dont feel confortable doing things that he ask me to do for example: Take care of his office , limitation in car use , etc etc.
Until which point I am supposed to do those things if i dont want to because of the separation pain.

I dont have any idea about my rights and what can i do in all this separation period until we get divorce !!!!!!

Can somebody tell me any kind of advice !!! or where can i find resources before put a divorce demand in court !!

Thanks in advance !!