[quote]"It appears this problem arises is 6 out of 10 relationships.
The kids will all soon realize that "Dad, is a liar." You can't make that up to them, But you can keep your word and give them someone to believe in."

Where did you come up with a statistic like this? Or, is one you just made up, that portrays husbands and fathers as non-caring liers? [/quote]

i didnt mean to make it sound like this is only Dads who do this.
it could be either parent.
in my case it IS the dad.

either way, i just wanted to know what people did.

sorry if i came across being 'anti-dad'.
i know of plenty of good divorced dads and good divorced moms. and visa versa.