[quote]That may be the good news, I live in Nevada. So when it's time, the whole thing should go down quickly.

I hear you about my daughter and that's what I figured.......so if I want to be a single Dad I've got to prove that my wife is unfit. That may be a task except she's threatened to leave "both of us" recently. Maybe the thing to do is get things like that on tape. [/quote]

I threatened to leave everybody when I was still married. Usually when the kids were really acting up. I didn't mean it.

Unless she actually abandons her child, you aren't going to be raising the child by yourself. And if your wife is the primary caregiver, her chances of being the custodial parent is good.

Nothing you have posted proves the mother unfit.