not all steps are cheatmates, but in this situation they are. and regardless, let the divorce be completed first.

i, of course, am looking at it from a different view point than faith. i was the one that was cheated on, and i now have to contend with still being married to him, they are expecting a child, she is still married, they attend my children's school and sports activities as a family. the cheaters don't see the hurt this causes.