Mistake, that's what I'm talking about!!!

I've really been blessed in that my BF's X is the poster child for healing from divorce. She isn't the first person I'd call to go to the mall to tell me if my butt looks big in a pair of slacks, but she's been extremely gracious and generous to us, especially the daughter I have with the X, and the daughter I have with HER X.

I can appreciate and believe her when she says she is praying for us. It's not lip service, but what she has to do to help herself. Her actions, for the most part, back up her words. And in the case where she does feel the tinge of pain and it shows, it makes it much easier to handle the blunt reality of those scathing words when we know her heart is in the right place.

There's a lesson in that....