I know quite a bit about adoption as I have two family members that are adopted. That leap must have hurt.

Are they your children? Because if they're not you're speaking third party. So realistically you don't know sh!t. Only adoptive parents truly know what the experience is truly like. So again you cackle your way to where your nose don't belong.

It's better to keep your mouth shut and have people think you're a fool than to speak and remove all doubt.