Yes, I can. I am, in fact, in the midst of trying to divorce someone I think is a sociopath (and that is my personal opinion).

The personal quandry right now relates to having obtained solid evidence which could convict my STBX of both federal and state crimes. While there is no question as to whether or not I will file civil charges for damages (what he did cost me my six digit position which had the flexibility to care for my child, and had dwindled to basically no travel so that I was able to spend the maximum amount of time with our child....and it would be very difficult to find the same set of parameters in a new position), the real dilemma is whether or not to turn the evidence over to initiate the process for a criminal case? If I turn over evidence and he's convicted, she has NO relationship with her Dad, and I have to wonder if that is really the best thing for her. While we have a great relationship today, our child and I, how would that change if his family beats it into her head "Mommy sent Dad to prison."???

At the same time, this past year has been so frustrating in how he's shown his inability to co-parent. It's been a campaign of revenge, with our daughter as the center of it all. She doesn't seem to be suffering emotionally (most of what occurs is via emails and in the courtroom), but if this is his "best" behavior, what would transpire related to our child after it's all final???