Oh, okay...that's good to know. Though he's still made it clear that he wants absolutely nothing to do with his children so its not good in the way that they still wont see him.

As far as my STBX, no there's no reason i wouldn't want him in their life. I just dont get the vibe that he feels like its appropriate to have a really active roll in their lives after the divorce is final. I'm sure he wouldnt object to having some roll in their lives though just not as frequent but who knows that could change