Thank you- I really appreciate your help. Since my ex won't talk to me, do I need to go back to court to ask for mediation?
Also, I took my son to the counselor because he's upset and I thought it would do him good to be able to talk freely with someone else who's impartial about the issue. I see your point, though, and I can't believe I made that mistake! Duh.
Sorry my post was out of whack- I tend to "talk" at a hundred miles a minute when I'm upset. I'm just completely overwhelmed with fear, anger, and hurt, ya know? I really, REALLY appreciate your help, though, and I will continue to come here to get reality checks!!!