[quote]So, he had an affair with this woman. Had another affair with this woman and got caught. Then got caught talking with the same person again? How many red flags do you need? [/quote]

It has been my experience that god throws a pebble to get your attention...then a brick, then a wall. This my friend is the wall. If I let a man have 3 strikes he will think I will tolerate that behavior. I know it sounds cruel but if it was me he would be hitting the curb!