[quote]I know, I need to be strong. I don't think I mentioned that his reason was that I had gained too much weight and he didn't find me attractive, he does, however, love me. Hmmm.... [/quote]

wow.
my stbx practically had this concept down in his own personal song to me.

get some personal therapay asap to counter act the stuff he's said to you. cuz when he leaves... there are times that stuff is actucally LOUDER than when he was standing there saying it to you.

really,
IF you think you can stick it out and even have married living single marriage try it.
but meanwhile get some ducks in a row.
you most likely wont be able to do this for long.
and
your spouse may very well bail also.

the beginning stages of the decision making are rough.
but believe me..not near as rough as the actual divorce process and fall out!