I was thinking today - why do you all think he keeps insisting on wanting to be home, telling me I'm the most important thing in his life, that all of this is over, that he is sorry - why did he quit his job to help rebuild the family...only to continue to want to talk to this girl. There were several times I gave him the opportunity to leave unscathed - instead, he stayed...and continued. Now when this split happens, we'll be out of savings - our few assets we have will have to be sold and he has no job. I just don't understand.