[quote]Yeah on the day to day stuff or concerning her education he doesn't want any involvement. [/quote]

So what is he asking for equal say in? Is it really worth the argument? I assume (due to ex's un-involvement) that the only issue I would EVER have is if my child, god forbid, was ever on life support and we didn't agree on the next steps to take. Everything else is pretty much at my discretion.