[quote]Oops. I just re-read my post and I meant to say JOINT COUNSELING, not joint custody. We already share custody 50/50 and our divorce is final. It has been final for since April.
He filed a handwritten court motion to force me into counseling with him. [/quote]

Given what you have posted, if the two of you go to counseling together, he will stop. As he is going to find out that the counselor isn't going to tell you to do what he wants you to do.