Msty I remember your story and you have come so far. I can't get over how much like my stbx yours sounds. I can truly say I feel the same about my stbx. Anger, hatred and just downright loathing plus a little bit of pity that he is so pathetic. To read your vent is like doing my own post. It really helped me identify some of the same games my stbx plays and this summer visitation thing is turning into a nightmare. Unfortunately we haven't even been to court yet but I have hope now because I finally have a date in July. I hope it helps to know that you are not alone because I know it helps me.(((hug)))

Christine