Why? I was the caregiver. It is what my kids know. When my kids fell down and scraped a knee,they ran past her to get to me. I want what I had before. My X wouldn't miss them, she was never at home when we were married. The only reason she wants them now is for the child support. They have begged me to let them move in with me, she won't allow it and I have to wait 1 full year before I file a motion to modify( which I will be doing)I won't even get into her home environment, that will just make me angry. I, yes I, raised two great kids who are smart,funny,caring and very level headed. I would like them to stay that way. It has nothing to do with money and everything to do with raising a child the proper way.

My X has no problem bumming smokes off of her bf's 13 year old daughter. No joke, 13 years old. Ahhhhhh...Anybody else have a problem with that or am I just being unreasonable again?