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My reason is a very simple one: They are my kids also and it is my responsibility to raise them. Don't get me wrong it is a job I love but it boils down to its my job and I am equally qualified even if my plumbing is different than my exwifes. [/quote]

Numbs. That is a very, very nice and a very intelligent answer. I really enjoyed reading it. Your ex is lucky whether she knows it or not.