Taryn I completely sympathize with that fact that this situation requires you to have contact with your STBX. I know the feeling too well. I avoid things because I don't want to deal with him. Any contact I have with him just opens the door for some type of comment or remark to chip away at me with.

I would provide what I could and tell him that is what you did. I know you are trying to protect your kids and make the situation for them comfortable-but you are doing all you can. It will have to be enough. I would carefully plan what I was going to say-so you don't give him the opportunity to use anything you say to hurt you.

Good luck.