taryn - been there...done that...and have been burned in the process. my X has done this on occasion to me. and then didn't take the kids to the event. i will never do it again.

i've told him that on his 'special' occasions, he needs to make sure that they have what they need, as i will no longer be providing outfits for his events. if i have the clothes already, then i will. if i don't, then he will need to provide it.

good luck!