That is great! Happier is better. My 16 year old daughter and I went to counseling today and she told me she wished her dad would leave again. We had one of those picture perfect lives (you know what I mean) until he had an affair. I never knew I could fall apart so fast - and now we are trying to repair and it's just not working. I am not who I used to be. My daughter told me today, when he is gone I'm a better person...She is right, the few times we have separated I can feel myself growing strong - but then I can't find a way to not have him come back home, and we cycle all over again. I hope and look forward to the day, my daughter will sit next to me and say something just like what you heard.