I'm sure I shoulder the brunt of the responsibilty more than I should...

Main reason being, he would see her a lot more if I tagged along with them. I feel selfish for not wanting to. I don't mind seeing him and putting up with his inappropriate remarks and wandering hands, but I don't want to spend large amounts of time together doing things with our daughter. I've tried and when I do his focus is on me and not her. Feels a little odd to say the least!

So she suffers!