[quote]Yes, I have tried...he doesn't want a schedule. Said he'll call when he's able to see her, yet, he never calls. [/quote]

Well, when he finally is ready, maybe you'll already be busy! If you had a schedule, you'd be able to plan your life, and he'd be able to plan his. Just because he doesn't want a schedule doesn't mean there shouldn't be one. Are you supposed to wait around until he calls, and then cater to his whims? And why does he need you there while he's spending time with his daughter? I don't know your whole story, so I'm probably missing some important information in this puzzle.

If you file for visitation, you'll get a schedule. And then he can either abide by it, or still not see his daughter. But, at least you'd know what days to expect him to have her. I just can't understand some fathers that don't want to see their kids. It seems so unnatural and inhuman.