Wow, you really don't read a person's history, do you?

>>>>>>>>>> I read her question and understand it , DO YOU ?

The FATHER in this case is CHOOSING not to have that much to do with HIS CHILD.

>>>>>>>>>> and that HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH HER QUESTION .

She's trying to understand why a father would do that. Hence the question.

>>>>>>>>>> NO . Read-ing Com-pre-hen-sion . She's asking why some men want MORE time like most don't .She then lists a bunch of nefarious reasons like getting back at the mother and paying less CS before finally asking if it's really because they love the kids .

I am not surprised that you would try to turn it into a gender issue.

>>>>>>>>>> Duh , stereotyping by gender is SEXIST .