Wish I could help,I need the same advice as well. Last week when I was talking to my boys before bed I could barely hear them. I asked my youngest to speak up but he said I can't. Mom's BF and his buddy were fighting over the last beer,to the point it came to punches :( Real great environment for an 8yo lady.

I feel your pain. Gonna be crappy for me too. They go back to her house on Tuesday.