it is tiring. when my X calls...he starts screaming, name calling, cussing at me on the phone. i've started to hang up on him when he starts it. if he calls back i tell him i will have a "civil" conversation with him. if he chooses to scream, cuss, call me names then i will hang up. i said i divorced him so i don;t have to put up with it anymore and if he has a problem with it, then we can just make it email communication from now on. (i love documentation) it has burned him many times and enraged him more...but i don't care and he now realizes it.

yes, he still does it at least once a week....i just have the upper hand.

if he wants his daughter, then he will drive to get her. if he doesn't show up, then he forfeits his time.

hang in there....you are definately not alone.