[quote]Wish I could help,I need the same advice as well. Last week when I was talking to my boys before bed I could barely hear them. I asked my youngest to speak up but he said I can't. Mom's BF and his buddy were fighting over the last beer,to the point it came to punches :( Real great environment for an 8yo lady.

I feel your pain. Gonna be crappy for me too. They go back to her house on Tuesday. [/quote]

your childrens mother is a [censored] IDIOT!
sitting on the same low lying earth spot as my stbx and kat's.

good grief!
you want to screw up your OWN life, well fine,
but messing up KIDS lives...see that just ticks me off!

i hope your custody situation changes soon.
your poor kids.