My ex and I are splitting custody 50/50 this summer and it has been hard on our son (just had a meltdown because he didn't want to go with ex). I divorced him over 2 years ago (alcoholism, won't work, depression, many other reasons), and he still resents me and cannot get over it. This man is so mentally ill and immature, I just cannot begin to tell you. Anyway, my ex was supposed to have him for the fourth of July, but he offered (unsolicited) to let me have him so he could spend the fourth with his cousins. I was happy and agreed, and thanked him. My ex suffers from depression and they usually stay in the house the whole time he is over there. My son is 3 years old. He then said he could only come if no other man was going to be with us. I ignored him. He continued to ask if any other men would be there, and I continued to ignore him. For the record, I am not dating and it will just be family, but it is none of his business.

He just emails again and says:
"Your need to play games and not answer a simple question asked to you at least 3 times has made me to decide to spend the 4th with L. Also the heartbreak I felt picking Liam up this morning reminds me of what you have done to him and how you have traumatized him. I will never forgive you for that. NEVER. He needs to spend more time with his father and that includes holidays. I was trying to be nice and let him spend it with his cousins but I will find something else to do, either with W and her kids or this girl I know who works at Disney and has a kid. We may go there for the day. And there is always Sea World.

So I hope you have a crappy 4th and me and L will enjoy it no matter what we do."

I have to deal with this behavior CONSTANTLY. I am so over it. I usually ignore him, but it ticks me off so bad when he brings our son in his warped world.
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