Curious,

Jada has given you great advice. You should not be in the middle of your parents' divorce.

I agree with Jada, you need to get back to school and get your degree. The best help you can be is to finish your education, so you can be a self supporting adult.

By all means, be supportive of your siblings, but you can do that while continuing your education. My concern is that if you take too much time off from finishing up your education, that you will lose the "drive" to jump back in and get it completed.

I am sorry your family is going through this. Divorce, while between the husband and wife, doesn't leave untouched the rest of the family.

Your Dad, regardless of what he has or hasn't done, that has caused the breakdown in the marriage with your Mom, is still and always will be your Dad.

Love is unconditional. My children were raised with that knowledge. They knew I would always love them. I may not have liked some of their actions, but it did not alter my love for them.

I guess what I am trying to say is this. You and your siblings may not like what your Dad has done, but he still deserves your love.

Get back to school and trust me, your Mom has support from her own Mom and friends to deal with what she will need to with the divorce. The best way you can help her now is to return to school for your degree.

I certainly wish all you all the very best.