There are a lot of people referred to on this thread that are NOT narcissists. I'd just like to say to anyone that IS dealing with a true narcissist or bi polar (ie:they meet OR EXCEED 9 out of 10 of the clinical behaviors completly) , co parenting is just NOT POSSIBLE. Do not even try as the attempts are damaging. It cannot work. Period. !

Parallel Parenting, my rules at my house and their rules at their house is the best that you can hope for. Uncoordinated because niceness = weakness. Think being circled by starving wolves, the narcissist feeds the same way.