my x and i have been divorced since 1998. he had unlimited visitation but never came to see her. she has seen him collectively about 25-30 times since we split up. she is now 12 and has not seen him at all in the last 6-7 years. we went back to court off and on now for the past year. she has told the court that she does not want to see him at all and that if they send her to stay with him that she will run away. the court has now sent her to councelling and for an emotional evaluation in memphis. she is so upset about all this that she is not doing well in school and my hands are tied. what do i do. she wants my new husband to be her real dad. she wants nothing to do with her biological dad. how do i help her.