Hello. I am a male who has been in a common law relationship for 5 years with a female who had a son before our relationship. In this relationship we formed a daughter and recently bought a home. However for years she has lied to me , and with finances always keep things seperate from me.
Finances have always been a huge problem for us and what is hers is hers and what is mine pays for half of the things we have. Things are a mess and we always argue, dont comunicate, get along etc.
I have no clue what to do as i want out. Im tierd of being lied to, things kept behind my back. I dont want to ruin the childerens lives but i have no clue what to do.