thank you for your help. it just upsets me that he actually can claim him and he's done almost zilch to support him. Part of me wonders how his conscience hasn't got to him - it absolutely amazes me. What's really irritating is the CSE said that this is very common for a ncp who moves out of town or state, they just close their eyes to their previous responsibilities. Anyhow, thanks for let me vent - I'm waiting for CSE's call, hopefully Monday !!