I am currently seperated from my STBX and we have 2 children together. I am leaving him due to his drug usage and lying. I tried to not make the visitation an issue until he wrecked the family car with all 3 children in it due to an overdoes. After this occurance he fled for a few months. I got a rstraining order against him and he got one day a week with the kids and has to pay support. He is now refusing to pay and feels he should get the kids anytime he wants. This scares me to death when he has the kids. What are my rights when court ordred child support is not paid? His father also is supposed to pick the kids up and drop off, he doesnt want to get involved anymore so the kids suffer. I have so much guilt because the kids cry for their dad. Were do i start my divorce process with as little means to pay with, and just overwhelemed. Ineed advice.