My ex is over 10000.00 behind. We have done the court merry go round since I filed in 2005. We were seperated in 2004. I averaged it out... ex has paid less than 75.00 of the ordered child support of 499.00 per month. He will pay when infront of a judge, but not any other time. Ex hasn't paid his portion of medical/dental (2000.00).... nor has he paid me the amounts owed to me from the divorce decree (approx 3000.00). I have court on 6/10 again... the last time we were in court the judge (finally) said something about seziure of assets. My case worker is filing paperwork about suspending or limiting his license. I will prepare you... collecting CS from someone who refuses to pay is a long drawn out process. NOTHING happens overnight. And just because you have a child support order doesn't mean he will pay.