I am not looking to benefit from ex's money... I am looking for ex's share to support his child. Age has very little to do with this... I was actually remarking that age doesn't equate to maturity. I do not mind son "enjoying" ex's money... as long as ex "enjoys" some of the responsibilities involved with Son. In my divorce I did not go for equity (10 years marriage... same house) in the home because ex would have had to sell... I did word the decree that IF ex were to sell son would get 1/2 selling price and if ex were to pass son gets house.... Not I, SON. So, ut... your estimation that I am looking to profit from my ex or get something for nothing is incorrect in my situation.