Gigi-
You obviously don't get it. He is not even considering the kids-it is all about him.

I do know he is not running up his credit cards because he is way behind-his creditors are constantly calling MY house looking for him. He drained our son's bank account-the money in the account was birthday & Christmas gifts from MY family-he just happened to be the one who took my son to the bank to open the account-which had to have his name on it because my son was too young. Is that a nice person? As for his lifestyle-I COULD CARE LESS!

How do you know my ex is not a louse? 8 affairs in a 15 marriage, 3 DUI's, socking away money without my knowledge.A friend of my daughter's told her they are always buying pot and coke at the restaurant he works at. Ya, he is real gem!